undefinded conversation

Sometimes I ask myself, why some undefinded conversation must be accomplished?
Conversation without any words.
Why should I make every new step in a dance with neither sence nor harmony just for pretending goals which are not believable for anyone?
Sometimes it is hard to understand that there is another way, another edge and much more different decisions than you did expect, and you have not learned it yet.
But I must admit that there are two items sharing one common trait: assets and words. Both needs to be useful.
And what do you really want to say, that is the matter.